Monday, February 15, 2010

Straight Rainbow Love

I love rainbows!
I love the brightness, the uplifting of your mood as you look at them, the cheerfulness of the mix of colours.
But I don't get the panic surrounding the love!
Do you know, dear readers, how many people have questioned my sexuality(ugh dur, I'm married!...to a MAN!!) or discreetly pointed out that rainbows are the symbol of the gay?!! LMAO whys it suddenly seem weird to like colour?
Ugh, so many people dress and decorate dully these days, it's depressing.
To me, that's depressing.
I couldn't imagine being happy in my world if I surrounded myself in black, grey, brown, beige, etc. Eeeewww! What a mood killer.
Dressing in colours is an instant mood lifter, and the more the merrier ;)
Decorating my house in colour is cheerful, keeps the happiness about the place.
It seems absurd to me that liking colour has meant a sudden worry on some peoples behalves that I have changed my path in life, that my once straight direction, is no longer... People who get around in dark colours aren't all goths, are they? They may look bloody boring, and I'm sure those shades surrounding them doesn't do much for the spirit, but their beliefs aren't questioned, are they?! Last year we had one of Jack's library buddies over for a play and it was the families first time at our home. The child's mother exclaimed, as she looked around our lounge room with a shocked look, "Boy, Jack sure has a colourful life!" But the way she said it, was like it was a bad thing. Like the lounge room looked like someone did a Technicolour vomit!!
Oh my golly, heaven forbid there's no black in sight!
I really detest black, or the greys, browns and beige's.
All the picture frames on our walls have been painted by me, all those terribly boring frames have been given a lick of colour. Light teal for all our sons pictures, musky pink for our couple pics, yellow will be for our next bub. The beige curtains of our rental have been stashed away in the cupboard and in their place are shimmery purple. We have my Grandma's shabby chic style lounge sweet, that was rather beigey in her house, but with the curtains and the purple and green rugs on the floor, the floral pattern on it is now the main focus and it looks like it has a new life. The TV cabinet has a rainbow cloth draped over it to keep bub from getting to the DVDs, and the little book shelf is painted with the teal, musk and yellow colours.
Yep, a rather colourful lounge room!
I no longer wear black pants. Only ever did so for work uniform and now am glad to be rid of it, blah. I just love colour!! But am I gay? Lol, only in the happy way ;)

10 rainbow comments:

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Mouth said...

oh jen you are a freak. a lovable one, but a freak nonetheless. :) hehehe

I'll bet you can guess what one of my favorite colors is: haha yes, black! lol :)

you are too funny, though. good for you: I totally believe in surrounding yourself with what makes you happy!

I do disagree with what you said about "goths" though. I am not "goth" but I do see a great deal of disdain for them, and an immediate assumption that someone wearing black is "depressed" etc. Not always the case.

Regarding rainbows meaning "gay" you are right: that is ridiculous for people to assume you are gay because you like rainbows. The wack-job hippies claimed the rainbow as a symbol way before the gays copied it from them. Um, anyone heard of the "rainbow gathering?" durr. It is a bunch of unwashed crazy hippies, not gay people.

You go girl!!!! Rock on with your bad hippie cloth diapering cross feeding self! ;) u r awesome because you are not afraid to be you!!!!!

eBz said...

lol jenjen i must be the most depressing person u know, i live in black and grey haha i will try and wear more colors around u from now on, although colors in my stupid head make me look fat and i feel self conscious in them lol i might crack out my white n floral maxi dress more then huh :P but im sorry dark always goes on the bottom with the exception of my white fisherman pants which are awesome... u would love them

Hearts and Hands said...

Your template is awesome!!
And I agree, colours are to be enjoyed by any and every body.

Who doesn't look into the sky and point and exclaim 'Ohhh look a rainbow' when they see one.

In regards to the womans comments on your house, sounds like she is a tad jelous and wishes she could let herslef go and add colour into her life.

Sazz said...

Imagine how it feels to be gay or a lesbian and have people constantly assume you're straight because that's "normal".

Love your point about people who wear black not all being goths.

Superficial judgments are never a good idea, rainbow, black, straight, gay or otherwise, ey?

:)

Mouth said...

right on, sazz! I just may let my child suck on your boobs! you are pretty cool!!!!! word!

Rainbow JenJen said...

Ebz I actually don't notice so much that you're a dark clothes wearer! Maybe it's the hair, or the colours you surround yourself with in your home, but you don't seem a "dark" person to me. In actual fact, when we had the ucw at my place, I was suprised when you were commenting that some of the clothes were too colourful for you and that the plainer items were more you...I'd never noticed!

The whole thing about black being slimming, I don't see it works (not personally anyway), it doesn't hide the curves so you may as well rejoice in them, learn to love them!! Lifes to short to worry about how others see you...learn to feel comfy in your own skin ;p

eBz said...

wooohooo for not being a darkie in your eyes :) Yeh mus be my hair and my house is very colorful so i express color in other ways then wearing it hehe and Oh if only it was that simple to luv the bod... my demons attack me.. i dont like them and i tried to vanquish them but alas the buggers beat me everytime... but yay i can now get fat and be happy about it! yay for blob lol xxx

nermylama said...

I LOVE rainbows! You're right, I walk into some houses full of expensive drab and think ugh, get me home to my blue couch and orange wall hangings and purple table clothes NOW!

Rainbow JenJen said...

Oh, you know what else Ebz, I wasn't even aware of how colourful I was til you made a comment at your crystal party when I was saying that "sample colouring" would make a great necklace, and you said it would suit me coz I'm colourful! that day I kinda thought, well if the shoe fits....make mine rainbow!! lol